Friday, February 14, 2014

Single or Married?

February 14, 2014

I recently read that 50% of all American adults are single.  Surprised?  I think those who are single often think that EVERYONE else is married!! My thoughts on this:

Are you Single?  Be Thankful!!  Marriage isn't the answer to every human need; in fact, it shines light on several selfish characteristics you may not realize you have!  As a single person you have the freedom to live the life God has for you.  If you're seeking His will for your life, relax, He is in control.  God knows your single and has everything you need in your relationship with Him.  I understand, I haven't lived single; however, there are several examples of single men (and women) in the Bible and the responsibilities and sacrifices of home did not hinder their ability to contribute to the Kingdom of God.

Are you Married?  Be Thankful!!  God has given you the opportunity to be the primary example of His relationship with the Church.  Did you know that's the supreme goal of marriage?  For the husband to love his wife as Christ loves the Church and live an example before the world of what Christ's love looks like.  This is from Ephesians 6.  You are also to reproduce more Christ followers and modelers.  Those of you who are married know that marriage is a job.  It requires lots of selflessness and for me; mouth shut!!

Below is a link from Words of William, a blog my daughter Michelle shared with me.  If you're raising children, hang tight!  Do what you need to, make the tough choices, lighten your load in these challenging days.  Work for thriving, not just surviving.  There is so much more life to live after this phase and so much to enjoy from the family in which you're daily investing.

We will come back to this article again, I'm sure.....

http://www.happify.com/public/articles/the-science-behind-a-happy-relationship/

The Science Behind a Happy Relationship by Happify.com

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